Bro Joe O’Toole 1958-2009
How did it happen?
Bro. Anthony Mcneill ofm
The Province was shocked and saddened to receive the news on Monday, 26th October 2009 that Brother Joe O’Toole had been tragically killed that day in a road accident in Zimbabwe.
He was travelling back into Harare after a day at a project where he was the chairman. As he approached a bridge a truck coming the other way dazzled him and he swerved to avoid it and went into the pillar.
There would normally have been a barrier there but a bus had recently crashed into it and it hadn’t been repaired yet. Although it was on the outskirts of Harare it was a reasonably populated area and there was a policeman and others that witnessed the accident and confirmed Joseph died on impact.
He was only 51 years old. Only a month before he had been visiting the Province. (Picture shows Joe visiting the friars in Stratford Friary London).
Joseph O’Toole was born in Airdrie on 5th March 1958.
He spent some time at the Scots College in Rome with a view to ordination in a Scottish Diocese before he entered the Franciscan novitiate in 1978, making his first profession a year later and his final Solemn Profession on 5th January 1985.
During his years of formation in Canterbury he trained as a general nurse and became an RGN. After his Solemn Profession he worked for six months as a Drug Rehabilitation Counsellor and then trained to become a Registered Mental Nurse.
When later in 1987 the Province decided to set up a new community among the poor in Gateshead, Joseph was made the friar in charge. While he was there he worked as a nurse, and was very involved in the Gateshead Credit Union moment.
In 1991 he became novice master at Chilworth which was the novitiate house for both our Province and the Province of Ireland.
In 1999 he volunteered to join the Order’s Thailand project where he learnt something of the language in a comparatively short time and worked in the care of AIDS patients.
In 2002 he was back in Glasgow until he was asked to go to Zimbabwe, a Custody of the Irish Province, as a temporary novice master. But he stayed on and was elected a Custodial Councillor at the last Chapter.
May he rest in peace.
Messages / Memories
Still remember dear Joe, my Novice Master in Chilworth, 1997/98. Joe, you continue to inspire me - your beautiful humanity, joyful, selfless, brotherly service and spirituality. A Gospel brother of Francis & Clare of Assisi.
May you enjoy the bliss of paradise, reunited with your lovely parents.
Remembrance
Your always still in our thoughts and prayers.
Remembering Joe
Treasured memories of a dear friend.
Happy Birthday Joe
Remembering you today.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne
Remembering you today
Always in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Love, Joanne.
Love and miss you
Remember you in my prayers.
Remembering Joe
Thinking of you today.
Joe,very sorry to hear...
Joe,very sorry to hear...
You are a my friend and a brother. You and I have a great memories,I miss you forever. I want to send a few photos.please give me a your email address. From Korea Andrew Moon
Happy Birthday Joe
Remembering you today and always.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne
One special person
Always in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Always remembered
Joe was my mentor during my integration year after philosophy! He was a hands on person, always smiling and generous with his gifts and talents!
Will always remember you my brother
May His Soul Rest in Peace
Remember you in my prayers.
Remembering you today.
Always in my prayers. John
Nursing memories
I am so sad to learn of Joe's death. I had the real luck & pure pleasure of working with him on a surgical ward as student nurses. Everyone loved him and the joy he generated whereever he went was truly inspirational. I've never forgotten him & I'm sure the same is true of everyone fortunate enough to have met him. Godbless his spirit in heaven forever.
Happy Birthday Joe
Remembering you today and always.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne
My School Pal
I have just found out about Joe. We were pals at St Pats in Coatbridge.My mother met him in Rome in 1976 and we lost touch then. So sorry I never got the chance to see him again.
Memories of a dear friend
Joe was my friend when I was the library assistant at the Study Centre in Canterbury. We lost touch but I've never forgotten him. I have only just found out he has gone. He lived his life for others. No one can do more. I'm glad to have known him.
Canonisation of Blessed John Ogilvie
October 1976 - Rome
Holy Father - Pope Paul VI
Happy Birthday Joe
Remembering you today and always.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne
Fond memories
Joe, you were an inspiration, larger than life. Fond memories of times together in Canterbury and Chilworth. Through you, Chilworth became an important place for me at a difficult transition in my life. Good memories too of time spent with your family in Airdrie and the time we met up in Bangkok. I don't cross paths with many people like you.
Hey Joe never forgotten always in our prayers the stars are always shinning your forever in our thoughts, Niamh still looks out for you above love you always Colin,Amanda, Niamh xxxxxx
Caro Joseph, che tu possa contemplare in eterno la luce del Suo Volto. Ciao, ti ricordo.
Grazie per la bella esperienza a Chilworth. Estate 1994
Brother Joe
Great times on the village in your company with you and the rest of the friars happy memories indeed mate R. I .P never forgotten your loss is this worlds loss x Rug
Larger than life
Joe was an inspiration, larger than life. Fond memories of times together in Canterbury and Chilworth. Though Joe, Chilworth became an important place for me during a difficult transition. Good memories too of time spent with the family in Aidrie. I think that the last time we saw each other was in Bangkok. You don't cross paths with many people like Joe.
Ciao Joe. ti ricordo
Happy Birthday Joe
Happy Birthday Joe.
Remembering you today and always.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne
Always remembered
Time has passed, l cant believe u are really in the other world far from us. U inspired me ad a friar, as a frend and as a big brother. Always remembered dearest bro. Rest in eternal peace
3 rd anniversary
R.I.P.Joe. Gone but never forgotten.
Love from Berni & family in Zimbabwe.
I met Joe when he was living in St Cuthberts Village with Martyn and Francis he was a lovely man always had a smile on his face so sad to come across this R.I.P Joe.. X
Happy Birthday
happy Birthday Joe, hope you are having a good one in Heaven! x
Happy Birthday Joe
Remembering you today and always.
You are greatly missed.
With Love,
Joanne.
Still thinking of you Br Joe
Almost two years without you brother and memories of you are still fresh. You are one greatly missed Friar. I remember very much the last time you drove us to Zambia for my First Year Philosophy and all those promises we made for May 2010 not knowing what was in store for us. Rest in peace brother.
Sincere condolences to Joe's family, friends and confreres
I recently googled the OFM website and was deeply saddened and shocked to read of Bro Joe O'Toole's untimely death. Very sad and such a loss. I remember him from Canterbury days and then in the Gateshead community when I used to come over from the Cramlington House for Mass and supper with Joe, Martyn and Francis. I remember his lovely smile and warm laughter, always in the distance somewhere at the FSC. He was a wonderful person, so kind, a great listener and was a truly authentic Franciscan, an inspiration to me. It is tragic to have lost him so young. God bless you Joe. May you rest in peace.
Joe , I remember so well the 1st time we met - it was at a St Patrick's "do " in Harare . If my memeory serves me right , we celebrated that particular St Patrick's day at least 2 more times ! You were a gentle , friendly man and we were honoured when you came to our house . We miss you, Joe .
Berni & Alan Fleming xxx
Smile and the world smiles with you
Joe, that sentiment certainly was meant for you.
Through the sadness we all feel on earth since your passing into heaven.
Look at the happiness you spread everywhere you went, for in that happiness your spirit will always live on.
The Memory lingers
I remeber the very first time I met brother Joe in Glasgow. A pleasant man. He touched many lives both in Scotland and in other parts of the world. Mine is not an exception.
Sleep on in the Lord our dearest brother for your good works still linger in our memory.
Our Joe
Remember Sat nights 6 to 7 you would come out St Francis chapel for kick about with all the pipe band boys. Good player u were. Miss u loads and the world a poorer place without you. Night night Joe, gone but never forgotten.
In memory of a wonderful man / friar/ individual
Joe so sad to hear off your death, Didn't get to know you to much, but what I saw and felt about you, you were a good one,So warm and friendly and that wonderful warm scottish accent. You were a wonderful friar/person and I'm sure God is happy to have you back in his presence. You will be a sad loss to the franciscan order. Rest in peace Joe. You have my love and prayers. I will keep you in my prayers please keep me in yours. Rest with the angels. Joe you are a very special person.
I was so saddened to hear of the death of Brother Joe. He was a beautiful, kind and much loved person. The world will always be a sadder place for his passing, but a happier place for all the good he did, and all who were blessed to know him. He will never be forgotten. Rest in peace Brother Joe x
Happy Birthday Joe
Happy Birthday Joe.
Thinking of you today and always.
With Love,
Joanne.
Chilworth September 1994
Our first baby (born November) has Joseph as a middle name in memory of Joe. Think about the priveledge of spending time with such a good man. Always remembered.
I have only recently learnt of Joe's untimely death. It is so sad that such a kind and good-hearted man as he was is no longer in this world. I knew Joe as a student nurse in Canterbury in the early 80's. My sincere condolences to his family.
Rest in peace Joe xx
Joe O'Toole r.i.p.
I had the pleasure of Joe's company in St. Cuthberts Village in the 80s when he was a friar in Holburn Walk. He was a lovely man and was dedicated to his faith work etc and am deeply saddend to hear of his death am sure if there is an after life Joe will be there r.i.p. Joe
A great companion
Wil always treasure the great teachings that you gave to me at our aspirants workshops!!!
You leave us all with beautiful memories
Joe, I will miss you. From the time we first met in 1981 in Canterbury you brought love and happiness to all who were fortunate enough to meet you.
God bless you, you are forever in my thoughts
Love Karen x
The smle that lives on in our hearts
What a privilage to have known such a great man, a true follower of Christ. I remember Joe with great fondness during his nurse training in Caterbury, when the ladies would wait for Joe to care for them, and the joy and happiness that shone from him every day. The friendship he bought to our family is priceless and will always be remembered. It was my mission this year to make contact with Joe, but I did not expect the devastating news that awaited me. we can now remember him with great love and fond memories. Rest in Peace beloved friend, you have made your mark on us all
Christine
I had the great privilege of joining Joe on his journey to becoming a nurse on September 1st 1981 at the Kent & canterbury Hospital.His warmth kindness and humour made a life long impact on me and he was always in my thoughts. Tonight I googled his name in the hope of trying to make contact and say hello again and it is with great sadness that I read of his untimely passing. I send my sincerest condolences to his family and friends that also had the privilege of knowing this very special person.
A smile that warmed your heart.
Sunday was the last Summer Fete at the Friary in Chilworth and it was from poor Father Michael that we learned of Joe's fatal accident, we were devastated and our loss impacted again for Michael. Joe was a great friend giving our sons 'jobs' at the Friary - like cleaning the floors whilst he would make them his famous sandwiches!
We feel so blessed to have known and loved him. The world is a poorer place without that wonderful smile.
May you rest in perfect peace Joe.
St Cuthberts village Gateshead
always remembered and for having the time to spend with me
xx
We Miss you
I share the same birthday as Joe and this year I thought and prayed for you. Veronica & I miss you and we were out at Tafara looking back on all the hard work you had put it ...
Rest in Peace Bro Joe
I am a Zimbabwean national teaching in the same school as Joe's brother, John, through whom I got introduced to Joe. Bro Joe was such a wonderful man, so warm and ever smiling. I met Joe on three occasions in Airdrie and he had become my only link with my beloved Zimbabwean relatives as he occasionally carried a few presents back to my sister in Harare.He had become my friend and am sad he had met his death while playing his part in saving poor Zimbabweans. He will always be a shining hero for me, and I guess for many Zimbabweans, he is so much loved. Rest in Peace
A wonderful person
So sorry about the loss of Bro Joe. I was at primary and secondary school with him,and spoke to him on many occasions. He was and still is a wonderful caring beautiful person and it was a pleasure to have known him. Rest in peace. God needed someone to do his good work in paradise so he had to pick the best xx
St. Cuthberts Village
I grew up in St. Cuthberts Village when Joe, Martyn and Francis arrived. They were always so kind and helped lots of the kids in more ways than they will ever know. Bro Joe you were a star. Martyn was kind enough to say a few words at the funeral of my brother Stephen and we were all asking after you.
Joe O'Toole's wee football, Scouts in Germany in early 1970s. Joe in colours of his favourite club.
Didn't see Joe for many years. Nothing but good memories of him. He truly followed in the footsteps of Christ. God Bless.
Language School In Bangkok, Thailand
I had a dream about Joseph last night and thought I would "Google" him to see if he was okay. I am sad to hear of his passing. I first met Joseph in language school in Bangkok, Thailand. Naturally, we became fast friends because we both spoke English! I was heading to Bang Saen to become an English Teacher and Joseph was preparing for his days at Lamsai Hospice. We enjoyed lunches after class, trips to Office Max to buy supplies and just navigating around Bangkok. For some reason we never studied together!?!! And so, once he got a private tutor (by the way, I excelled in conversational Thai…while he struggled 🙂 and official moved to Lamsai and I moved to Bang Saen, we lost contact. After all of these years, I still remember his gentle kindness and that twinkle in his eye. He was pretty wonderful. I remember him telling me why he became a friar...he met a few brothers and, "..wanted what they had." I can truly say that Joseph did have the love of Christ in his heart. It drew so many people near.
3 I thank my God every time I remember you. 4 In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
7 It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart; for whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God's grace with me. 8 God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.
9 And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10 so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ - to the glory and praise of God.
Wonderful memories of Joe.s unending kindness. During Peters last days we spent some wonderful times, I know that it was his dream to go to Africa so I feel that Joe did live his dream, he was also so kind and supportive to Joanna, I send my heartfelt condolences to his fammily.
An unforgettable person
Br. Joe will forever be remembered with gratitude for nursing my Uncle Peter Daly as he so valiantly fought cancer. Nothing was ever too much trouble for Br. Joe. We were able to feel at 'home' in Chilworth whenever we visited my Uncle, and Br. Joe always provided a wonderful, what he would call 'medicinal tonic' - a glass of red wine which helped through the hard days with Peter, and provided moments of laughter and hospitality - always second to none. Our thoughts & prayers are with his family. Now Joe & Peter are together once again....rest in peace always.
Love and happy memories
I along with my children have very fond memories of Brother Joe at Chilworth. We will miss his kindnes and lovely smile. Love, valerie
So sad at hearing the news
Joe was one of the people that made the year at the FSC in Canterbury (1981/82) so very special: his gentleness, his smile, his lovely Scottish accent. Only learned about his death through Chris Dyczek's Xmas card today....The photos on YouTube have me in tears. Bruder Tod kam viel zu fruh fur ihn.
Joe, a friend and a brother
Br. Joe was a friend and a brother to me. He used call me "spoon and fork" his translation of my name in Thai and I nicknamed him as "old man" because he could not remember my Indian name.
He was a wonderful and cheerful friar. He took care of the terminally ill and dying HIV AIDS patients in our St. Clare's AIDS Hospice, Lamsai, Thailand. He respected every patient and cared them with love and human respect. He journey with the patients in their pain and suffering. They called him "Brada Cho Jai Dee" (kind hearted Bro.Joe). Some of the patients who are still alive and our staff remember him for his kindness and love. All of us were sad and astonished that he journeyed to God sooner than we could ever imagine. Brada Cho Jai Dee lives for ever in our memories. May his soul rest in Peace.
Johnson mv ofm
A True Franciscan
Sorry to be coming so late to the memorial - just heard from John Dougan today. The first thought that came to mind was Francis saying in Gateshead "He's the true Franciscan here" - a truth born out by so many sincere tributes. Personally, I will always treasure the ikon Joe made from a poster of Ruben's Trinity and the back of a wardrobe door. It was made for a visit of Taize brothers to Gateshead. Joe ran the creche that day and the brothers said it gave them a new understanding of the term 'mother church' I see you haven't lost your touch with technology, Martyn. Amazingly it all works well - what better use could be made of it!
Joe the beautiful friar
As a nurse I had great empathy with Joe and he showed me many different ways of caring especial when Peter Daly was dying racing Jeanne to heaven both suffering with cancer. Joe was the person who led them both to eternity and now he can rejoice with them, all three so young. God keep you Joe and thanks for everything
Brother Joe
We have lost a truly great , kind, loving and supportive man. We will remember all the many kindnesses he so generously gave those that needed them. His tenure at Chilworth taught so many of us what his true greatness meant. I will always be grateful for his wisdom.
What a good Bro?
My condolences and sympathy, may the good Lord rest him in great peace. We loved you, we love you and we shall always love you. RIP Brother.
RIP
My condolences and sympathy. May the good Lord rest him in great peace. We loved you, we love you and we shall always love you. Rest in peace Brother Joe.
The best man I ever met.
Without doubt Joe you were the best Man that I ever met.
My thoughts are with all who loved you and there are many of those but especially your family and your ofm brothers.
I often still think of you and am glad that I was so fortunate to journey with you for a while. You helped make me a better person and your example and love for everyone is something thst I will never forget and try my best to copy.
Like Francis you pointed to Christ. You lived your life well.
I can still hear you and Peter Daly laughing as you nursed him - bet you too are having a good catch up. Rest in peace.
Peace and goodness always
John
I new Joe at St.Patricks High School, a lovely man. My condolences to his family
He was a good brother. I know him. thanks Joe for all
Dunbeth
'What a great bloke, that said, not the best bowler I've ever seen, not by a long way. I blame Martyn for poor coaching........mind you he was no better. Sorry Martyn!! Happy Cricketing days in Dunbeth Park
What a creative br we had in our custody of good shephered
Nothing is imposible we can do everything by our own hands br Joe left us with skills for decorating houses, different cards, how to make home cakes, yoghut and so forth. May his soul rest in peace hope to meet him in heaven. Remain blessed always.
Br Joe (nickname Bj) I remember you with unceasing phrase "CAN I HELP YOU" wish to inherit this in practice.
Joe's death
My condolences and sympathy . May he rest in the Peace of His Lord
Chiara Hatton Hall fmdm
A good friend lost
We knew Joe in Zimbabwe and he enjoyed coming to our house for barbecues.As fellow Scots we had a lot in common , but that wasn't difficult with such a nice natured man like Joe. He got on well with all our friends ( none of whom knew what a Friar was ! ) and he used to joke that he was like Frair Tuck. We will miss his happy face and send our condolences to all his large family , whom he spoke of with great love. A special hug to his neice , also called Berni - he talked a lot about you .
A brief meeting
I only met Brother Joe twice when I was home through my parents but from that meeting it was easy to see what a genuine and special man he was.We had been planning on meeting up on his recent trip to Scotland and I was very sad to hear the news of his accident. Rest in peace.
A real Brother Minor
I just shared with Joe a month in Gandachivbuva (Zimbabwe). He was so kind person, so humble, always ready to help you in any way you need. He was a real Brother Minor, a truly son of St. Francis!
Joe, a Zimbabwean friend
I received the news of Joe's sudden death when I was at our General Chapter in Rome. I managed to phone Margaret his sister and also sent my condolences to the Friars in Zimbabwe, especially Fr. Liam. It is devastating.
Joe was a faithful friend who would often knock on the door of my rondavel for a chat - or often for a glass of wine, if we could find it. Recently he bonded with the Brothers in our community, and established an Association of Brothers in Zimbabwe. He was a very loveable man and I miss him very much.
In Chilworth
I was very shocked to hear the news about Joe's death. I was one of Joe's novices at Chilworth, and in that year I benefited especially from his ability to put his own needs aside and be so present to others and accepting. This is hard work but he always made it look easy. Along with this he had his own sparky sense of humour and genuinely liked people, with all their curious ways. It is no wonder that he was loved by so many people from all walks of life. Time and again I saw him treat others, as well as complete strangers, as though they were his brother or sister. For him we were all equal and he lead through being a companion. On our Hermitage Retreat in Osmotherly I realised that he had spent the year putting himself on the line for us novices, in everyday practical ways and emotionally in being available and thoughtful, so that we could have the time and space to find God in our own way. I thanked him for that. I will never forget our walks and talks. Pace e bene, Joe. I hope you are learning to windsurf now!
A beacon of hope
Joe was a beautiful person manifested through his kindness in heart, selfless generosity in deeds and above all his ability to find beauty in everyone he encountered. God sent Joe to give us all hope that we too can be extraordinary simply by using the ordinary gifts we all have within us - he is a beacon of hope that will continue to shine.
A GREAT MAN
We were devastated when Fr Liam told us the shocking news about Joe, we just could not believe it. We had seen him at church on Sunday and in his usual way, he smiled and waved to us..... little did we know that would be the last time we would see him. He will be sorely missed by us and we keep the family in our prayers and thoughts. He did so much for the community and may his dreams be carried on. We will treasure the Bressay Cross he brought back for us. Go well our dear friend and we will cherish all the memories we had with you!
In Memory of Bro Joe O'Toole
I was in the same year as Bro Joe O'Toole at St Patrick's High School. I remember him as a very kind person with a warm smile and a kind word. My condolences go to his family and friends at this tragic time. May he rest in peace.
I can still hear your wonderful laugh
I will miss you so much.Your wee letters when you could get them posted. the laughs in Mags and Stephens.Their wedding day 19yrs ago when you gave me communion even though i wasn't supposed to take it. you were an inspiration to everyone.Alexander and i will miss you so much.I feel so honoured and blessed to say you were my friend.God bless Joe you were such a beautiful person.My prayers are with you, and all the family. thank you Martyn.
May God Keep and cherish him in heaven
From Hiawatha
When thou smilest, my beloved, then my troubled heart is lightened.
As in sunshine gleam the ripples that the cold wind makes in rivers.
Smiles the earth and smiles the waters, smiles the cloudless sky above us.
But we lose the way of smiling when thou art no longer near us. Words so appropriate to Brojoe.
Making us smile
Joseph worked hard at making other people smile, even when all seemed dark.
Tooley Tours - Canterbury
Every summer Joseph organised a holiday at the Canterbury Study Centre for his family and anyone who dared join.
Thank God I met you
It may be sad to know that you are no more, but I am sure of one thing. you made an impact to me and that will always be treasured. I smile when l remember you at my work place saying to me "muribho?" slang for How are you in shona. You were a friend and a brother to me. Hope some friars were inspired by you in a way. Thank God I met you.
A true "Frank", a wonderful person.
I first met "BJ" Bro.Joe in Glasgow in 1987, when I worked in St.Francis Parish. A true Franciscan. A REAL "Brother Sun" Rest in Peace Dear Brother Joe. Rest in the Arms of God.
A man who knows how to give himself. He was a FRIAR MINOR AND I learnt a lot from him.
Gateshead Days
Remembering Josie
He gave us the happiest days of our lives at Canterbury on Tooley Tours.An irreplaceable loss to all who knew him. God bless Joe.
Sapentia et gratia proficere
Thats what it said on our school badge and although I never saw Joe again after we all left St Pats , from everything I've found out about him in the last few days he really did advance in wisdom and grace.
In our thoughts
Never let grief say you are sorry he has gone; rather that you are forever grateful he was here
One in a billion
Thanks for being a great guy.
To brother
In 2003 whilst researching the vocation of religious brothers for an article I interviewed Joe (and the Glasgow Community even posed for a photo!)as I had known him through the years and could see that he knew how 'to brother'.
He shared that it was on visiting Assisi that he was captivated by the vision of St. Francis in embracing lepers and outcasts, the people on the outcasts of society, which helped him discern his vocation and thus he left the seminary and entered the Franciscans.
After taking his vows he trained as a nurse and worked whilst living in different communities. One was located outwith a parish-setting in Gateshead where friars lived and built relationships with the local people in the spirit of their founder's charism. He was then novice-master where he accompanied men on their spiritual journey in the initial-stage of their formation. After this he was a nurse in Thailand in an AIDS Hospice. On returning to Glasgow he got involved with a project 'Bridging the Gap' that works with asylum-seekers and young people.
St. Francis prayed that he may be a 'Channel of His Peace'. Joe believed that he could try to do this in his work with people who are on the margins of society' through 'brothering' them.
This he did. Joe was truly captivated by the vision of St. Francis. +Peace.
riposa in pace!
Never to be forgotten.
God rest you Joe
A lovely man and a good friend, you will be sadly missed by many.
A fond farewell
Many happy memories of the Roman days on the Cassia. I am sure the angels were there to welcome you with open arms. A life well lived and a task well done. God love you, Beppe
RIP
A fantastic example to us all, you embodied everything that is good in your family and community.
God Bless you, may you rest in peace
Fond Memories
An inspiration to everyone. May you rest in peace.
Good memories of days together in Rome before your move to the Franciscans. Rest in peace Joe - prayers for you and your family
In grief of brother Joe
In loving memory of br. Joe. May he rest in Peace.
BROTHER JOE
When I met Brother Joe I was going through a difficult time but you always encouraged me to keep positive.
You always had a smile on your face. You left me with lots of happy memories. It have been a privillege to have known you. I know you are always watching over us. May you rest in peace.
Always with a smile
I don't every think I can recall seeing him without a smile he was so wonderful 🙂
Beautiful brother Joe
Have many many happy memories and thank God you where part of my life. You where a much loved member of the wonderful O'Toole family.
I will always remember you with a smile on my face and much love in my heart I will never forget you and I am sad you are gone sleep and be at peace my cousin in life and brother in Christ Amen.R.I.P
Wonderful friar Joe
Dear Joe,
Before becoming novicemaster in The Netherlands in 1997 I came to you in Chilworth to learn from your experiences. Thanks for your encouragement and for being our friar for so many years. Live in Peace!
Br. Fer
Joe O'Toole RIP
Very sad to hear of the tragic death of Joe. Website brought back many happy memories of Canterbury. A life cut short, but lived to the full. Rest in peace Joe
Man on a mission
Joe told me he wanted to be a priest or a doctor to help people.
But his plan got mixed up and he ended up as a nurse and a monk.
He had a twinkle in his eye telling me this.
He never lost sight of his mission of course which was to help people.
Everybody loved Joe and he was an inspiration to all and always will be.
You would warm to him in two minutes as he had such charm.
The world is such a poorer place today without him.
Fond memories
Who can ever forget the early days in port seton! A great guy and an inspiration to us all. God bless you Joe.
May you rest in peace.
Brother-in-law
I will always remember Joe's loving smile. The laughs that we had, the secrets we would share. The love that he gave, and the way that he cared, God bless forever in our hearts. Thanks for this Martyn
Joe was a true brother to everyone who's inspired others to follow his vision. We're thankful for the time we knew him in Chilworth, we'll miss him. Rest in peace.
TOP GUY
Joe made you feel better when you didn't feel so good, rest in peace pal.
Bro Joe!
As a young boy, I remember Joe leaving St.Francis Church and the Gorbals and us having some sort of leaving event for him in St.Francis Primary.
The next time seeing Joe was in Duns Scotus probably about 15 years later when he shouted 'Hey Strainy!'...cant believe he remembered me! I had the pleasure of really getting to know him over the few years he spent then at Blessed John Duns Scotus in the Gorbals. Such a great guy and real positive influence on me. His thoughfulness and guidance will never be forgotten.
I think often of his smile, his kind and quiet words of encouragement he often spoke to me.
Someone in a previous message wrote about Brother Joe being a perfect description....he was a brother to many.
God Bless you Joe.
Terry
I was one of Joe's novices in 1990. He has had a profound influence on my life during both of my episodes into franciscan life and beyond into marriage and family life. Along with my own father he is one of the truely holy men that I have met. My wife was so impressed with him that she said that he was the only man she would consider leaving me for. He will be sadly missed.
God bless and keep you Joe, show His face to you and give you peace. Your discernment years ago sustains me still.
Bridging the Gap
Joe was so helpful a few years ago, in seeing Bridging the Gap through some challenging times, and as a former chairman of the Management Committee, I want to thank God for his cheerful presence and willing support for our work with schools and asylum seekers in Gorbals.
Big Brother Joe
Brilliant memories of a brilliant guy .Joe, you'll be missed eternally by all your friends and family. God bless from Gerard and Sharon.
Br Joe
We'll miss you! You always had a smile and made time to chat. Many happy memories of your time in the Gorbals as one of the only Friars who we could have a pint with. You've done a lot of great things and made a difference to many lives.
Your memory will live on for everyone in St Francis Pipe Band and the Nelis family
The Music
For anyone who might like to know, the music accompanying this beautiful tribute is the final track from the original film score of "Fratello Sole, Sorella Luna" The track is called 'Francesco va Solo nel Mondo' - 'Francis goes alone out into the world.'
Our Twinkling Star
A silver star, a velvet sky, we need never say goodbye.
As we watch you up above, twinkling down your rays of love.
There you all are in the sky each night, shinning down ever so bright,
Granny Toole, Uncle Eddie, Aunty Rea and Uncle Joe,
Side by side twinkling all aglow.
As we now know where you are, shinning brightly that big bright star.
May the angels watch you all close by
in that vast velvety sky.
Although we will miss you every day
I have no more words left to say
So we will say a prayer for you each night,
Goodnight Uncle Joe and sleep tight.
2006 Christmas at Ganda, Zimbabwe
U r missed Joe
U are greatly missed
Your hospitality, kindness, understanding & eversmile will be greatly missed. My noviciate year was fantastic as you were refusing to be called master but a companion, my three years in Lusaka cementised our friendship and my Intergration year had started well amid to your support as my mentor. May your soul rest in peace
Friars
Met Joe through Martyn Jeffs and Fr Francis X and was always struck by his happy disposition and huge blue eyes.
Very sad to hear of his death
Joe Rest in Peace
will Miss Joe
Joe was my mentor during my Franciscan/integration year between May 2005 and May 2006. I will remember him for his humility and fraternal encouragement at a time I was discerning my future as a friar. I owe to him the courage he gave me as I felt called to be an unordained friar, he shared his 30years experience of Franciscan life and gave me the courage to love this vocation. I have lost a friend and a mentor. May his Soul rest in peace.
I met Joe the day I was made redundant from my job and he not only cheered me up but had us all laughing about it in no time. Such warmth and kindness - a really lovely man. Rest in peace.
A happy memory
I am deeply saddened to hear of the death of Joe.
We studied together at the Franciscan Study Centre in Canterbury.
He was the sort of guy that emanated happiness and contentment - sure that he was fulfilling the God's calling - the sort of personality that one remembers 30 years on.
Joe, as you rest in the peace of God's love, the love you gave to those who met you will never be forgotten.
GandaChibvuva Zimbabwe
A smile that lit up a room
I am so shocked and saddened. What a loss - a great man, who was dedicated to his work and brought so much warmth & compassion to those in need.
I first met Joe in Bangkok in 2000. It was a privilege to be his friend and to see the work he undertook at the AIDS hospice. He always had a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eyes. He was a joy to be around and I remember with fondness the fun times we had in Bangkok and Liverpool.
He will be missed by everyone who loved him and worked with him. My deepest sympathies to Joe's family and to all his friends & colleagues worldwide - - we have all been touched by this amazing man.
God Bless Joe. I will remember you always.
Love Joanne.
Such a genuine guy
My thoughts go to Joe's family and friends at this sad time. We shared such good times in Canterbury and beyond and I too will never forget his smile and cheeriness. He was a true friar. Thanks to Brian who let me know of this sad news. Thoughts too to Martyn, another friend.
Fond, fond memories of a lovely guy
I have known the O'Toole family since I started primary school in Airdrie in 1960 in the same class as Joe's older brother John. I have known Joe since I joined the Franciscan Sisters in Canterbury in 1991 and our paths crossed at various events over the years. He was such a considerate person and generous with his time and always had a smile when you met him ... a genuine smile. He was such a gift to the Franciscan Order and a gift in my life. I was so shocked to hear of his death. He will indeed be sorely and sadly missed by all who know and love him. Such a lovely, lovely guy.
Liz.
Rest in Peace loving Bro Joe
I met Br Joe couple of years ago and the first impression has lasted since. His kindness and thoughtfulness meant so much. May he rest forever in the bosom of the Lord.
Joe
Good memories of a very fine guy,generous,kindhearted and always smiling. Joe although I only knew you briefly I will always remember you kindness and warmth. God bless you.
RIP Joe
I dont have many mermories of Joe, as I was too young and a few years since I last saw him, but the ones I do have when growing up I always remember laughing. I remeber him trying to teach me to juggle, and not being very successful as I still cant do it to this day. He had so much time for everyone and patience. May you rest in peace Joe, we will all miss you xxx
Fond Memories of Joe
While on a visit to Kent Mr Fearless O' Toole (see photo 6) wanted to try out a few thrill seeker rides !!!! A happy day.
Mc Cann Family Kent
Zimbabwe
Joe was a great friend and a true brother. He will be sorely missed. Rest in peace Joe.
Great Memories
I was really sorry to hear about Joe. He was a smashing guy and I have great memories of him when I was growing up, he was just a great pleasure to have around and without a doubt would always put a smile on your face. My feelings are with his family and all of his friends. Going to miss you Joe.
From his American friends
We met Brother Joe when we were living in Thailand, far from our families. He immediately felt like family to us. We were blessed to see firsthand the compassionate work he did at the AIDS hospice north of Bangkok. He was a wonderful influence on our sons ("the lads"), and we enjoyed many fun times with him. The memory of his kindness, humor and faithful example will stay with our family forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and with all who loved him.
Chilworth, Airdrie and Gorbals!
Watching the tribute to Joe has brought the tears that haven't been able to come since I heard the sad news. I have so many happy memories of a great man and friend.A wise and faithful follower of Francis..... whose whole life was spent helping people. I am trully blessed to have known Joe O'Toole. Rest in peace Joe. Will never forget you or your smile.
Bangkok 2000-2002
We loved being with Joe.
Brother Joseph O'Toole of Airdrie
We met Joe in Thailand when we lived there 2000-2001. Joe was always a ray of sunshine, an example of calm and serenity in a frantic Bangkok. Above all he was Scottish and we were very fortunate to be able to share some of the local "Scottishness" with him. I am a piper and wrote a wee tune for Joe back in 2000. You can hear it at http://www.youtube.com/user/DoffDave#p/u/3/XLHBE5acoUM
Joe was always first & foremost a Friar, living out fraternity with a smile. He will be greatly missed bith for who he was & the work he did building up God's Kingdom which he now expereinces in all it's fullness. Pace e Bene.
Always very kind , friendly and good company on my visits to the friary in Ballater St , Glasgow .
May you Rest in Peace .
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow
Words cannot even begin to express the sadness we feel for the sudden loss of our Joe. He truly was the best and the wonderful memories will live on forever. He will be missed so much by all who had the privelage of knowing him. Rest in peace Joe and know we will never forget you. May the Lord comfort your family always. Maree (Jeffs)
What is the most beautiful music accompanying the photos?
Thanks
Joe
I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Joe's death.He was very good to me and listened and helped with good advice. I will never forget him. My deepest sympathy to all his family and friends. Pat
A Truly Wonderful Man
Everyone who met Joe were Blessed. He was a truly wonderful man who enjoyed life and brought his own special something to eveything he did. I enjoyed all the times we met and am truly sorry for the loss of such a kind soul. I can only imagine that God has bigger plans for him and that is why he has taken him so soon. God Bless Joe and Rest in Peace.
Connie
You make me smile when I think of you
‘Brother Joe' - a more true statement couldn't be made – he was a true Brother to everyone he met. He made everyone feel loved and what a listener! Many secrets will have gone with him. He will be truly missed by many. My love and thoughts are with his Dad and siblings. What a tragedy. Christmas is coming and he loved the special hot chocolate drinks in Starbucks, especially the white chocolate ones – urrrhg! Makes me smile when I think of his enthusiasm for everything. Love Francine Meggett Jeffs
A special time with Joe
Assisi,before setting off to climb the Rocca to see the sunset.Something I will always remember and treasure.
I've lost my best friend
I've lost my best friend. I will never forget the times we had over the years. 🙂 Thank you Martyn. Love Ellen
From the Formation Days
Lots of memories
Very sad news.
As Chris says a gentle man
with so much care for others.
pax Joe now and always.
Still can't believe it. A truly gentle man, may he rest in peace.
Can't believe it, how sad to hear this news of Joe,
Very sorry to hear of his death, he was a lovely man and this is a lovely tribute to him.
RIP Joe
Great photos of happy days. RIP Joe. You were a very gentle hearted guy and a credit to the Friars. You will always be remebered fondly
Canterbury
Canterbury - good times, great people and the lovely joe - loads of great memories - missed forever
Wonderful man
Wonderful man and friar, my thoughts with all.
pace Joe